Tuesday, June 1, 2010

PURPOSE OF LIFE

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What is the purpose of life?
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The purpose of life is three-fold:

1) To gain a body and experience a fullness of joy as our eternal spirit takes on a physical form. Will we develop self-mastery over the flesh or let it take control? A successful life is one of self-mastery.

2) To learn to live by faith. In this mortal world we must live by faith constantly. We exercise faith to plant seeds in the ground, nourish them, and trust that they will grow. We work trusting our employer will pay us. Faith is continually required - even by those who do not believe in a Higher Power. A successful life is one that develops enough faith to trust God. The people who do their best and rely on God to make up the rest are those who have found the secret to a joyful life.

3) To prove yourself. What will you do with what you've been given? Jesus illustrated this with the parable of the talents. The two servants who had 2 and 5 talents doubled theirs and were considered good stewards. The one who had 1 talent, buried it in fear, and did not improve lost his talent and was banished. What have you done with the light, knowledge and gifts you've been given? For those who have been taught the gospel of Jesus Christ, have they been valiant in their testimony of Jesus? Those who have never heard of Him or never had a chance to be taught of Him will be measured by what they have done with the light and truth they have been given. Jesus taught, "where much is given, much is required." He who sins against the greater light receives the greater condemnation. What have you done with what you have been given? Have you sought to obtain more or in fear hidden your talent in the earth?
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What On Earth Am I Here For?
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Why Am I Here? - A Fundamental Question
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Why am I here on earth? Where did I come from? What am I worth? Do I have any intrinsic value? Do I serve a purpose? These are all fundamental questions. They are life's "big questions." How you answer these questions determines how you see the world and how you treat the world. Because you are a part of the world, how you see the world also determines how you see and treat yourself. So, it's important that we resolve these fundamental questions. And it's important that we discover the honest truth. Wrong answers to important questions aren't helpful.

Where do we begin in our search for the truth? We begin at the beginning. Perhaps the most fundamental question is: does God exist? It's fundamental because our answers to the other "big questions" actually hinge on how we answer this significant question. For example…

Why Am I Here? - The Atheistic Worldview
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Why I am here? Well, if God doesn't exist, that means that life must have come about through some natural impersonal, unintelligent, and ultimately purposeless process. That means we're ultimately as purposeless as the very process which brought us into existence. Life's just an accident and so are you. You can find short term reasons for living like you're here because your parents wanted to have children, etc., but ultimately you're just an accident and so are your parents. Life is one big accident. You serve no purpose, you'll cause no lasting effect, and in the grand scheme of things your life is utterly meaningless. Without a Creator in the beginning, there was nobody around to put you here on purpose which means you aren't here for a reason. It's that simple.

As far as asking "what am I worth," without God we don't actually have an intrinsic value, at least not an objective one. Our worth is ultimately subjective. You might think you're worth something but someone else might think you're worthless, and as long as there's no transcendent Assessor to have the final say, no one's ultimately right or wrong. In fact, without God there's really no such thing as right or wrong. John Dewey (1859-1952), the famous 20th century atheist explained, "There is no God and there is no soul. Hence, there are no needs for the props of traditional religion. With dogma and creed excluded, then immutable truth is also dead and buried. There is no room for fixed, natural law or moral absolutes."1

Philosophers generally agree: without an absolute God to make the rules, there is no such thing as a moral absolute; there are only preferences. You don't actually have a right to live; you just prefer not to die. Someone else on the other hand might want to kill you regardless of how you feel about it, and who is to say that they're wrong? In the absence of absolute morality, power reigns supreme; the strong survive and the weak get exploited.

Thankfully most governments see it as their duty to uphold what they see as your God-given right to live, and governments also happen to be the strongest institution among men (which means they can enforce morality upon those who don't necessarily agree with your right to live). The founders of the United States of America put it well when they declared, "We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness, that to secure these rights, Governments are instituted among Men, deriving their just powers from the consent of the governed…" Unfortunately, some governments don't share this worldview and their people suffer terribly for it.

Why Am I Here? - The Theistic Worldview
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Why am I here? Well, if God does exist, that means He is ultimate reality. If He created you for a reason, that's ultimately why your here. If you're valuable to Him, that's ultimately what you're worth. What He says is right is absolutely right and what He says is wrong is absolutely wrong. We may be free moral agents with the freedom to make moral decisions, but that doesn't mean we can choose what actually is right or wrong; that just means we're capable of choosing to be right or wrong. God makes the rules. The question is: will He enforce them? Will God ever hold us accountable for our moral decisions? The prevailing instinct among the majority seems to be that, yes, God will hold us accountable. It's as if most people instinctually know that one day they're going to have to explain all the bad things they've done (which of course means that they also instinctually know that there is such a thing as moral absolutes).

The point is, if God really does exist, terms like "justice," "purpose," and "morality" aren't abstract notions: God has a purpose for you (that's why He made you), He's the one who instituted morality, and in the end He'll see that justice prevails. That's a comforting thought to some, but it's terrifying to others.

So don't begin by asking, "Why am I here?" Begin by asking, "Does God exist?" If He doesn't exist there's really no point in asking "why am I here?" - everything is ultimately pointless. And if He does exist, you'll discover your reason for living when you discover who He is. So begin at the beginning. Does God exist?

Does God Exist - The Big Questions
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Does God exist? An answer to this fundamental question is a prerequisite for answering the other big questions of life: Where did we come from? Why are we here? Do we serve a purpose? Do we have any intrinsic value? What happens after we die? The question of the existence of God is fundamental.

Does God Exist - A Philosophical Issue
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Before we ask the question "Does God exist?" we first have to deal with our philosophical predispositions. If, for example, I am already dedicated to the philosophical idea that nothing can exist outside of the natural realm (i.e. there can be no supernatural God), no amount of evidence could convince me otherwise. Asking the question "does God exist?" would be pointless. My answer would be "No, He doesn't," regardless of whether God truly exists or not. The question would be impossible to answer from an evidentiary standpoint simply because anything which God might have done (that is, any supernatural act which might serve as evidence for His existence) would have to be explained away in terms of natural causes, not because we know what those natural causes could possibly be, but simply because a supernatural God is not allowed to exist!

Dr. Richard Lewontin, the Alexander Agassiz Professor of Zoology at Harvard University, put it like this: "It is not that the methods and institutions of science somehow compel us to accept a material explanation of the phenomenal world, but, on the contrary, that we are forced by our a priori adherence to material causes to create an apparatus of investigation and a set of concepts that produce material explanations, no matter how counterintuitive, no matter how mystifying to the uninitiated. Moreover, that materialism is absolute, for we cannot allow a Divine Foot in the door" (Richard Lewontin, "Billions and Billions of Demons," New York Review of Books, January 9, 1997, p. 28).

If, on the other hand, I were neutral, and didn't already have an "a priori adherence" to a particular worldview (be it naturalistic or otherwise), the question "does God really exist?" wouldn't be pointless at all. Rather, it would be the first step in an objective and meaningful search for ultimate truth. Our willingness to ask the question with an open mind is fundamental to our ability to discover the truth behind the answer. So first of all, before you even ask the question, decide whether or not you're really willing to accept the answer.

Does God Exist - Things to Consider
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Once you're ready to ask the question, "does God exist?" here are a few observations to consider as you begin your search for an objective answer:

    * Discoveries in astronomy have shown beyond a reasonable doubt that the universe did, in fact, have a beginning. There was a single moment of creation.
    * Advances in molecular biology have revealed vast amounts of information encoded in each and every living cell, and molecular biologists have discovered thousands upon thousands of exquisitely designed machines at the molecular level. Information requires intelligence and design requires a designer.
    * Biochemists and mathematicians have calculated the odds against life arising from non-life naturally via unintelligent processes. The odds are astronomical. In fact, scientists aren't even sure if life could have evolved naturally via unintelligent processes. If life did not arise by chance, how did it arise?
    * The universe is ordered by natural laws. Where did these laws come from and what purpose do they serve?
    * Philosophers agree that a transcendent Law Giver is the only plausible explanation for an objective moral standard. So, ask yourself if you believe in right and wrong and then ask yourself why. Who gave you your conscience? Why does it exist?
    * People of every race, creed, color, and culture, both men and women, young and old, wise and foolish, from the educated to the ignorant, claim to have personally experienced something of the supernatural. So what are we supposed to do with these prodigious accounts of divine healing, prophetic revelation, answered prayer, and other miraculous phenomena? Ignorance and imagination may have played a part to be sure, but is there something more?

If your curiosity has been piqued and you desire to look into this matter further, we recommend that you consider the world's assortment of so-called Holy Books. If God does exist, has He revealed Himself? And if He has revealed Himself, surely He exists...

DISCOVERING GOD

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WHY SHOULD WE KNOW GOD ?
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We should try to know GOD for a number of reason. They are:

1. GOD IS INFINITE
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The infinite nature of God simply means that God exists outside of and is not limited by time or space. Infinite simply means “without limits.” When we refer to God as "infinite," we generally refer to Him with terms like omniscience, omnipotence, omnipresence.
*Omniscience means that God is all-knowing or that He has unlimited knowledge. His infinite knowledge is what qualifies Him as sovereign ruler and judge over all things.
*Omnipotence means that God is all-powerful or that He has unlimited power. It is significant because it establishes God’s ability to carry out His sovereign will. Because God is omnipotent and has infinite power, nothing can stop His decreed will from happening, and nothing can thwart or stop His divine purposes from being fulfilled.
*Omnipresence means that God is always present. There is no place that you could go to escape God’s presence. God is not limited by time or space. He is present at every point of time and space. It is significant because it establishes that God is eternal. God has always existed and will always exist.
           Because God is infinite, He is also said to be transcendent, which simply means that God is exceedingly far above creation, and is both greater than creation and independent of it. What this means is that God is so infinitely above and beyond us and our ability to fully comprehend that, had He not revealed Himself, we would not know or understand what He is like. But, thankfully, God has not left us in the dark about Himself. Instead, He has revealed Himself to us through both general revelation (creation and our conscience) and special revelation (the Written Word of God, the Bible, and the living Word of God, Jesus Christ). Therefore, we can know God, and we can know how to be reconciled to Him and how to live according to His will. Despite the fact that we are finite and God is infinite, we can know and understand God as He has revealed Himself to us

2.GRATITUDE
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One of the great commandments is to give thanksgiving to God, for all He has done for us.The first way to show true thanksgiving to God is to always remember Him. Remembering Him means that He is a part of our thoughts, words, and deeds. It is impossible to give gratitude to God if we never think or speak of Him. When we remember Him we are choosing to think, speak, and act as He would have us do.In this world we are apt not to value anything or anyone, but our gratitude-heart always values everything in God's creation. It values God the Creator and God the creation. It values God's Compassion and it values God the Compassion
A seeker begins by effortful expression of gratitude. However over a period of time by repeatedly expressing gratitude and also through spiritual growth he develops the spiritual emotion of gratitude. Once this state is attained, as one constantly realizes that ‘God is the Doer, I am nobody’, his subtle ego starts reducing. He starts appreciating his limitations and lack of capacity. Hence in any difficult situation he humbly surrenders before God and only then does any action. This is called ‘surrender to God’. When he starts surrendering to God not only in difficult situations but even in small-small incidents in day to day life, his spiritual emotion of surrender increases. God promptly fulfils prayers with spiritual emotion like ‘God please look after my spiritual growth, please tell me what my next step should be, You only guide me’. A seeker having spiritual emotion of gratitude and surrender is always close to God. God bestows everything that is required, i.e. spiritual experiences, guidance and knowledge to such a seeker even without asking.

3.GOD'S WILL
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   God has a specific or direct will for the life of each one of us. It should be our highest purpose to determine just what His will is for us and then to do it, whatever the cost.
For the person seeking to know the will of God, suggest some principles for knowing His will.

1.   Counsel him to make right any conduct or relationships that may constitute a barrier against knowing God’s will. Some times a relationship with a sweet heart or a business partner will have to end, or some sin must be confessed.
Emphasize that clearing the way to God must be through confession  and with other through apologies and restitution, if necessary.

“Always… have a conscience void of offense toward God, and towards men”

2.   Counsel him to be willing to do God’s will, whatever it may be or may cost. “He said to them all, If any man will come after me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross daily, and follow me”

3.   suggest that he assemble all the available facts and then filter all facets and circumstances related to knowing God’s will for his life through his own intellect and common sense, his precious experience, and the counsel of godly friends. He needs to consider also his own gifts and talents.

4.   Suggest that the inquirer seek God’s will in the light of revealed Scripture. What principles, commands or prohibitions apply? Has the Holy Spirit given any motivating verses or promises? “Thy word is a lamp unto my feet, and a light unto my path”

5.   Urge him to pray for God’s will to be revealed, and also pray that he may be spiritually perceptive enough to discern it. Isaac’s servant said, “I, being in the way, the Lord led me”

“Don’t worry about anything; instead, pray about everything; tell God your needs and don’t forget to thank him for his answers”
6.   He must be very sensitive to the Holy Spirit’s leading, asking himself: “Is He moving me toward, or away from, a particular course of action?” “But when he, the Spirit of truth, comes, he will guide you into all truth. He will not speak on his own; he will speak only what he hears, and he will tell you what is yet to come”


7.   Suggest that he ask himself: “Am I at peace as I consider the factors involved? Or am I restless and impatient because of uncertainty or inner conflict?” “And the work of righteousness shall be peace; and the effect of righteousness, quietness and assurance forever”

8.   Urge him to allow room for faith.

     

9.   As an exercise in practical monitoring of progress, counsel him to prepare a list under the headings of “pros” and “cons,” and “alternatives,” in order to record any insight from the Lord as to His leading.

10.  Pray with the inquirer about any initial steps he should be taking to implement the above.

God's will is discerned in prayer. If we do not go to the silence of an inner room, and there wait for God to speak, we will never know his will. To hear the word of God, we must develop the habit of listening. All prayer, like all faith, can be distilled into one affirmation - Thy will be done. When all else is reduced to silence, this prayer must rise in our hearts. Then as we open ourselves to his love, he will speak.

RELAXATION

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RELAXATION
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What is relaxation?

Relaxation is a feeling of calm in body and mind. It is a learned technique which can be used in stressful situations and everyday life to reduce tension and increase control.
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Relaxation Techniques
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Each session should begin with "Getting Loose" and then followed with "Breathing Easy". It is best to use the relaxation program prior to commencing the warm up and then to use the warm up to achieve optimal level of arousal.

Getting Loose
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Begin each session as follows

    * Loosen your clothing and remove your shoes
    * Lie down with a pillow under your head (on a bed or on the floor)
    * Lie flat on your back, feet about 12 to 18 inches apart and your arms at your sides
    * Go as limp as you can from head to foot
    * Let your shoulder blades go slightly flat
    * Waggle your feet
    * Settle in with your legs
    * Shake your arms gently, rolling the backs of your hands against the floor
    * Roll your head back and forth

Now begin the "Getting Loose" exercise for each part of your body, as follows

    * Legs
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 o Flex the muscles of your left leg by raising it 6 to 10 inches above the floor Point your toes slightly back toward your head. Hold this position of tension for as long as you can, about 10 seconds or so, until you begin to feel the muscles start to tremble. Then, say to yourself 'Leg, let go'. At this point, stop flexing it and let the leg drop. Let the leg rest for another 10 seconds or so, saying to yourself 'I feel the tension flowing out of my leg...my leg feels relaxed, warm, heavy... completely relaxed'                        o Repeat the flex-let go-rest procedure for that leg.                                                                                     o Run through the entire procedure again for your right leg.
   
* Buttocks and thighs
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 o Repeat the exercise.
   
* Stomach
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 o Do the same procedure twice for your abdominal muscles
   
* Back and Neck
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 o Arch your spine, tightening all along it from your tailbone to your neck, and finish by telling it 'Let go'.
 o Repeat the exercise
 
  * Arms and Shoulders
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 o Imagine there is a bar suspended above you that you want to use to pull yourself up. Raise your hands, palms upward, above your chest. Grab the imaginary bar and clench your fists around it as hard as you can. Flex the muscles in your arms and shoulders. Hunch your shoulders up as tightly as you can. Hold as long as possible and then say 'Let go. ' Rest for 10 seconds or so, soaking up the warm, relaxed feelings, letting the tension flow out.       
 o Repeat the exercise
   
* Jaw
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o I tighten your jaw muscles, clamping down on you back teeth. Say 'Let go' and relax.
 o Repeat the exercise.
   
* Face
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  o Tighten your facial muscles into a strong grimace. Say 'Let go'. Rest and focus on the relaxing feeling.
  o Repeat the exercise.
  
 * Eyes
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   o Focus on a point on the ceiling. Without moving your head slowly roll your eyes to the right as far as they will go, then to the centre, then to the left, then back to the centre.
  o Rub the palms of your hands together until you feel heat. Close your eyes and cover them with your hands. Let the heat warm them. Rest, and tell your eyes 'Let go' and feel the tension flow out as you feel the warmth.
  
 * Entire body
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  o Clench your feet and fists. Pull your shoulders up. Tighten your jaw and face. Now simultaneously flex your entire body, arching yourself as much as you can from your heels to the back of your head. Hold it for as long as you can until you feel your body tremble. Then say 'Let go' - and just let yourself go... all the way, as much as you can.
   o Lie there and feel the tension drain away.
 
  * Get totally relaxed
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o Close your eyes. Let your attention wander slowly over each part of your body, from legs to face, as you did in the exercise. If any area seems to have some residual tension, tense it. Let you. Feel the tension draining out of you, but do not worry if there is still a little left. Keeping your eyes closed, stay in this relaxed state for the rest of the 10 minute session. Think of a very pleasant, peaceful place. Think of floating in a small boat on a peaceful lake with a soft breeze gently rocking you back and forth, back and forth. Alternatively think of floating in space, lighter than air, weightless. Observe the pleasant, calm feelings. Tell yourself 'I am relaxed now... My legs feel relaxed... My buttocks, thighs, and abdomen feel relaxed... My back arms, shoulders, jaws, face and eyes feel relaxed... The tension has been let go. '

Focus your relaxed feelings
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Now begin to focus this relaxation on your event. Tell yourself 'When I am running and I begin to feel tension gripping some muscles, I will be able to tell those muscles "Let go", saying "Let go" will recall the relaxed feelings I feel now and will release the tension from those muscles.'

Breathing Easy
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Having completed the "Getting Loose" exercises remain lying on your back. Carry out the "Breathing Easy" exercise for 10 minutes, as follows

   * Inhale
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          o Inhale slowly and deeply, filling your chest with air, counting four seconds to yourself 'One and two and three and four'. The count is to give you a nice and easy, even pace. Try to breathe as fully as you can without discomfort. Imagine your chest slowly filling with air, from your diaphragm to your collar.
   
* Hold breath
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          o When you have inhaled fully, hold your breath for another four seconds, again counting to yourself 'One and two and three and four'. This should be just a comfortable pause. Do not do it until you are blue in the face.
  
 * Exhale
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          o Exhale - but do not blow. Just let the air out through your mouth slowly saying to yourself 'Easy...easy... easy... easy.' Let out as much air as you can, down to the lower part of the lungs. Feel yourself relaxing as you do. Feel your shoulders, chest and diaphragm letting go. As you exhale, think of the tension flowing out of you.

Do not worry if the sequence is not exact or the cadence perfect. It may seem a bit difficult to stay with at first, but just keep going. The important thing is to establish the slow relaxed breathing rate. After the ten cycles, your breathing rate will be automatically slower and you can dispense with the "one and two and three and four" cadence.

Now do as follows
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    * Inhale - Breathe in fully.
    * Hold breath - Hold it very briefly.
    * Exhale - Let the air out slowly (do not blow), saying mentally 'Easy... easy... easy... easy ' with each exhalation.
    * Repeat this cycle ten times.

You will soon begin to feel a calm, thoroughly pleasurable feeling - some say a warmth radiating from your chest throughout your body

Now let yourself breathe normally and tell yourself relaxing phrases 'I feel very relaxed... All the tension is going out of me as I exhale and good feelings are coming into me as I inhale... When I am playing my sport, I will be able to take a few deep breaths and by saying, "Easy " will be able to tell myself to relax whenever I feel overly tense... When I am playing, I will recall the good feelings I am experiencing now and they will automatically return to me. Imagine all this happening as you say it to yourself.

Continue to do the breathing exercises for the rest of the session, each time alternating the ten cycles of inhale-hold-exhale with the mental encouragement. After the last cycle of ten, just let yourself enjoy the feeling for a minute.
Easy

Tell yourself for the rest of the day I will recall these sensations every time I tell myself 'Easy'
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Types of relaxation techniques

Health professionals such as complementary and alternative medicine practitioners, doctors and psychotherapists can teach various relaxation techniques. But if you prefer, you also can learn some relaxation techniques on your own.

In general, relaxation techniques involve refocusing your attention to something calming and increasing awareness of your body. It doesn't matter which relaxation technique you choose. What matters is that you try to practice relaxation regularly to reap the benefits.

There are several main types of relaxation techniques, including:

    * Autogenic relaxation. Autogenic means something that comes from within you. In this relaxation technique, you use both visual imagery and body awareness to reduce stress. You repeat words or suggestions in your mind to help you relax and reduce muscle tension. You may imagine a peaceful place and then focus on controlled, relaxing breathing, slowing your heart rate, or feeling different physical sensations, such as relaxing each arm or leg one by one.
    * Progressive muscle relaxation. In this relaxation technique, you focus on slowly tensing and then relaxing each muscle group. This helps you focus on the difference between muscle tension and relaxation. You become more aware of physical sensations. One method is to start by tensing and relaxing the muscles in your toes and progressively working your way up to your neck and head. Tense your muscles for at least five seconds and then relax for 30 seconds, and repeat.
    * Visualization. In this relaxation technique, you form mental images to take a visual journey to a peaceful, calming place or situation. During visualization, try to use as many senses as you can, including smell, sight, sound and touch. If you imagine relaxing at the ocean, for instance, think about such things as the smell of salt water, the sound of crashing waves and the warmth of the sun on your body. You may want to close your eyes, sit in a quiet spot and loosen any tight clothing.

Other common relaxation techniques include:

    * Yoga
    * Tai chi
    * Listening to music
    * Exercise
    * Meditation
    * Hypnosis
    * Massage

Relaxation techniques take practice

As you learn relaxation techniques, you'll become more aware of muscle tension and other physical sensations of stress. Once you know what the stress response feels like, you can make a conscious effort to practice a relaxation technique the moment you start to feel stress symptoms. This can prevent stress from spiraling out of control.

Remember that relaxation techniques are skills. And as with any skill, your ability to relax improves with practice. Be patient with yourself — don't let your effort to practice relaxation techniques become yet another stressor.

Also, bear in mind that some people, especially those with serious psychological issues and a history of abuse, may experience feelings of emotional discomfort during some relaxation techniques. Although this is rare, if you experience emotional discomfort during relaxation techniques, stop what you're doing and consider talking to your health care professional or mental health provider.

Certain relaxation techniques known as "formal and passive relaxation exercises" are generally performed while sitting or lying quietly, with minimal movement and involve "a degree of withdrawal" These include:

    * Autogenic training
    * Biofeedback
    * Deep breathing
    * Meditation
    * Zen Yoga
    * Progressive Muscle Relaxation
    * Pranayama
    * Visualization
    * Yoga Nidra


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Benefits of relaxation
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Relaxation will help you to:

    * think better and enjoy improved concentration.
    * feel calmer, happier and more energetic.
    * experience less discomfort.
    * improve your body’s efficiency by decreasing heart rate, blood pressure, breathing rate and muscle tension.
    * enjoy more restful sleep.
    * increase your feeling of control of your environment.

Relaxation has no side effects, feels good and costs nothing.

Practicing relaxation techniques can  also reduce stress symptoms by:

    * Slowing your heart rate
    * Lowering blood pressure
    * Slowing your breathing rate
    * Increasing blood flow to major muscles
    * Reducing muscle tension and chronic pain
    * Improving concentration
    * Reducing anger and frustration
    * Boosting confidence to handle problems
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Uses
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People use relaxation techniques for the following reasons, among others:

    * Anger management
    * Anxiety attacks
    * Cardiac health
    * Depression
    * General well-being
    * Headache

   

    * High blood pressure
    * Immune system support
    * Insomnia
    * Pain management
    * Stress management



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Tips to promote relaxation
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    * set aside a regular time to relax each day.
    * choose a quiet place.
    * wear loose, comfortable clothing and lie or sit in a comfortable position.
    * try not to practice relaxation techniques in bed, unless you intend going to sleep.
    * other thoughts may enter your mind - accept these thoughts and bring your concentration back to your breathing - do not be concerned or distracted.

Relaxation is a learned technique which improves and becomes easier with regular practice.

There are a number of different relaxation techniques. To find the most beneficial method for you, contact the occupational therapist at your hospital or local community health centre.
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RELAXATION STRATEGIES
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Learning relaxation techniques can help you restore your body to its natural state when you’re feeling stressed, and can potentially help you remain more resilient to stress that you face in the future—you can become less reactive to the stressors  that you face, and can recover more quickly from it if you do react.

Relaxation can occur when you’re just sitting and watching t.v. in a lounge chair (which is what some people think of when they think of the word ‘relaxation’), but having a more structured plan for relaxation can be more helpful in the face of stress.

Here are some relaxation strategies to help you combat stress:

    * Breathing Exercises
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      These can be your first line of defense against stress. Breathing exercises are wonderful for relaxation because they can be used anytime and at any place, they work quickly, and are easy to master. Read more on breathing exercises.

    * Meditation
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      Many people try meditation and find that it’s a wonderful relaxation tool. Many others consider trying it, or try it a few times, and decide it’s not for them. If you’re in the second group, you may want to consider giving meditation another look—it’s excellent for relaxation as well as developing a more positive attitude and, if practiced long-term, greater resilience toward stress. Learn more about the benefits of meditation and different meditation techniques you can try.

    * Music
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      Playing music is a great way to relive stress and promote relaxation for your family and friends as well as yourself. (Okay, maybe your co-workers won’t enjoy hearing your tunes as much as you do, so perhaps this one is best saved for home and in the car.) Because music brings real benefits in terms of wellness (music therapy is a growing field), it can be conveniently used effectively for relaxation as well. Learn more about using music for stress relief.

    * Exercise
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      It may seem that exercise is the opposite of relaxation, but a good workout can actually make you feel more relaxed afterward for a few reasons. First, working out can be a good way to release stress and blow off steam. Second, the endorphins released during a good workout can aid relaxation quite nicely. Additionally, exercise can get you into a state of flow where it’s difficult to stay stressed—your body has to move toward relaxation as your stress response begins to reverse. Find ways to work exercise into a busy schedule.

    * Have Fun!
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      Yes, these relaxation methods don’t all have to be clinical and practiced. Letting loose and having fun with your family and friends is an excellent way to relieve stress and experience relaxation. The problem is that people don’t always prioritize plain old ‘fun’ as an important part of life—they don’t fit time for it in their busy schedules (at least not nearly as much as they should) because they don’t realize the value of fun for balance as well as physical and emotional health. Well, now is the time to start working more fun into your life. See these tips on having fun for starters.

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STRESS MANAGEMENT

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STRESS MANAGEMENT
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It may seem that there’s nothing you can do about your stress level. The bills aren’t going to stop coming, there will never be more hours in the day for all your errands, and your career or family responsibilities will always be demanding. But you have a lot more control than you might think. In fact, the simple realization that you’re in control of your life is the foundation of stress management.

Managing stress is all about taking charge: taking charge of your thoughts, your emotions, your schedule, your environment, and the way you deal with problems. The ultimate goal is a balanced life, with time for work, relationships, relaxation, and fun – plus the resilience to hold up under pressure and meet challenges head on.

Common Sources of Stress
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Identifying common sources of stress is the key to effective stress management, to coping with stress, and to reducing stress.

Acute Sources of Stress
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- Accidents
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Accidents are common sources of stress... anyone who has been in a minor car accident can attest to this. Our bodies experience a stress reaction... our heart rate goes up and we feel the adrenaline surging through us.

There are a wide range of accidents... situations where they can occur, levels of severity, people who can be involved. These sources of stress have one thing in common: they evoke an acute stress response.



- Sudden illnesses
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Diagnoses of serious illness are always acute sources of stress. Fears of death and dying, financial pressure involved with medical care, worry about loved ones, pain and the fear of pain are all contributors to the acute stress of sudden illness.

- Job losses
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Sudden or unexpected job loss, or even the threat of a possible job loss, has brought acute stress to many people.

Besides the obvious loss of steady income, job loss brings up a whole set of stressors involved with finding a new job, lifestyle changes, altering comfortable routines, finding ones way in a new organizational culture... and on, and on.

- Economic Crisis
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Sometimes economic crisis is a direct contributor to job loss, but it is one of the acute sources of stress for a variety of reasons. A comfortably retired couple may find their life savings threatened because of falling investment value... A small business owner may see a huge drop in sales as consumers reduce their spending.

Economic issues may be a chronic stressor for many, but when the issues reach crisis level, the impact is often acute and far-reaching.

- Relationship Crisis
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Marriage is often the first thing that comes to mind with acute relationship-sources of stress. Around half of marriages fail at some point... commonly, one party in the relationship is very surprised and hurt.

Crisis is possible in any relationship where one or both parties have made a significant contribution of time, money and emotional energy.

Chronic Sources of Stress
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- Economic burdens
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As mentioned above, constant economic pressures are a significant source of stress for many people.

Poverty, or the threat of poverty are high on the list, but we also experience stress when our lifestyle is threatened. Also, if our income cannot support our lifestyle, we come under additional pressures from creditors.

- Family conflicts
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Family conflicts are often chronic stressors because family members are stuck with one another! When conflict goes unresolved in the family setting, when little irritations fester, when tempers are always simmering just below the boiling point, the chronic stress can take a real toll on relationships and health.

- Toxic relationships
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Many of my readers, clients and friends can relate to this one! Toxic relationships are the ones that drain you. Never mind who it is. Never mind how they drain you.

If you give and give to the relationship getting nothing in return, it could be a toxic one. If you regularly get battered emotionally, intellectually or physically, you may be in a toxic relationship. Toxic relationships often have strong social or familial ties, and cause significant long-term stress.

- Chronic illness
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Just as the unexpected, rapid-onset of acute illness causes acute stress, chronic illness is a major chronic stressor. Chronic illness is a drain on emotional energy, a strain on close relationships, disruptive to lifestyles and often psychologically damaging.

Sources of Stress at Work
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- High Demands
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Demands are shifting in the working world. Rather than long experience with one company, business leaders are looking for innovation and flexibility. This is extremely stressful to many older professionals and working people, who feel that their seniority is no longer valued or appreciated.

Young people entering the workforce also get pressure to perform, prove themselves and demonstrate their worth. While coaching can turn this stress into positive energy, it is overwhelming for many individuals who feel unsupported.

- Ethical Dilemmas
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For a morally upstanding person who values his or her job, pressure to make unethical business decisions or transactions can be very stressful.

Even if a person has willingly acted unethically in the past, the continued stress of covering ones tracks and betraying ones conscience can build over time. Just working in a morally bankrupt environment can cause significant stress.

- Uncertain Employment
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Of course, there is always some stress when our job or business is threatened. Whether this is a corporate memo warning of impending layoffs, or a string of customers backing out of their sales agreements, the implications reach into every area of our lives.

Some entrepreneurs enjoy life on the edge, and feed off of the stress caused by competition and uncertainty. For most of us, an unstable employment position is one of the major sources of stress.

- Role Ambiguities
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Role ambiguity results when we do not know what the boss really expects of us. If our job description and evaluation criterion are unclear, it can make going to work very stressful.

As emphasis on flexibility, innovation and teamwork increases, people who are used to the very structured working environment of traditional organizations are under increasing pressure. Moody supervisors, corporate takeovers and a host of other factors make role ambiguity one of the increasingly common sources of stress in the workplace.

- Career Pace
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Whether it is too fast or too slow, the pace of our career can be a significant stressor. When responsibilities and decisions pile up on us faster than we can cope, it can feel like the career train is careening out of control.

When we are sitting stagnant in a dead-end job that is not making use of our skills, strengths or challenging us enough, we can feel like the career train is broken down and going nowhere fast. In either case, we can feel overwhelmed by the present situation and unable to see our way to a solution.

- Physical Working Environment
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Renovation/construction, lighting conditions, building design, noise, the outdoor elements, constant danger, hazardous materials and other physical contributors can add stress to the working person. Even hostile co-workers, abusive bosses, or depressing rows of drab cubicles can add to the stress.

There are many legal protections for the working person these days, but little below-the-radar annoyances can add up if our coping mechanisms are rusty or absent.

- Toxic Relationships
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We touched on this in Chronic stress, but toxic relationships in the working world are so common that it is worth mentioning again. Some people just rub one another the wrong way or cannot see their way through a difference of opinions.

While a skilled conflict resolution coach could help significantly, we often feel trapped in the toxic relationship because our job demands that we work directly with or close to the problem-person

Sources of Stress at Home
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- Parental Duties
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Parenting is one of the most important tasks we will have as humans... the young, impressionable years are formative and vital to adult success. Children are God's precious gift, right? Some parents reading this will nod in misty-eyed agreement, but I can imagine many more that are rolling their eyes and chuckling!

Being such an important activity, parenting comes with a proportionate amount of stress. Inconsistent discipline, social pressures on children and the many irritations that crop up when living in close quarters with one another contribute as sources of stress.

- Financial Conflicts
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Money issues are one of the main causes of marital strife. Business deals with relatives, small business operations, school costs and lifestyle expectations all fuel the fire.

- Spousal Relationships
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With such a strong emotional and physical bond, relationships with spouses are ripe for stress. Unmet expectations, unfilled needs, communication deficiencies, personality conflicts and many other things can make this very important relationship miserable and stressful for both parties.

- Physical Setting
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Home improvement or construction projects, cramped or poor living conditions or noisy traffic outside are sources of stress in the physical home setting. Also, a complete absence of guests can make a home feel empty and cold, while a huge excess of visitors can make the home environment un-restful.

- Social/Family Pressure
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Think of the classic "my mother is coming to live with us" scenario! While many cultures handle this well, some families may be ill-equipped to handle the extra relationship dynamic.

In the same vein, pressure to look or live a certain way from very traditional family members or stuck-up acquaintances can also add stress to the home.


Sources of Stress at School
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- Social Pressure
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Participating in extracurricular activities, clubs, the party life, etc. can all put a strain on time and emotional energy. Dating and relationship activities also require energy and contribute stress to school environments.

Pressure to participate in the activities above may create stress for the student who is just trying to survive in a new, hostile social environment. Going from a respected high-school star to a nobody in a large university setting can be stressful... Trying to find one's way socially after a miserable home life or high-school experience can also be quite daunting.

- Family Pressure
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Family pressure to make certain grades, participate in certain social organizations and contribute emotionally or physically at home can add stress in many situations.

There are also two very opposite but significant types of family-related school stress... pro-school and anti-school. Some families view educated people with distrust, while others place high educational expectations on family members who might do better in the trades or arts.

- Academic Pressure
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Even though schools seem to exist to create a certain level of academic pressure (how else would some people be motivated to learn!?) it is one of the common sources of stress.

By taking on too many classes or studying material outside of ones ability level, the natural, positive eustress (or useful-stress) of obtaining an education is easily overdone and damaging.

Reasonable self-expectations and good time management skills are important to coping with academic sources stress.
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 Stress management starts with identifying the sources of stress in your life. This isn’t as easy as it sounds. Your true sources of stress aren’t always obvious, and it’s all too easy to overlook your own stress-inducing thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. Sure, you may know that you’re constantly worried about work deadlines. But maybe it’s your procrastination, rather than the actual job demands, that leads to deadline stress.

To identify your true sources of stress, look closely at your habits, attitude, and excuses:

    * Do you explain away stress as temporary (“I just have a million things going on right now”) even though you can’t remember the last time you took a breather?
    * Do you define stress as an integral part of your work or home life (“Things are always crazy around here”) or as a part of your personality (“I have a lot of nervous energy, that’s all”).
    * Do you blame your stress on other people or outside events, or view it as entirely normal and unexceptional?

Until you accept responsibility for the role you play in creating or maintaining it, your stress level will remain outside your control.
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Learning healthier ways to manage stress
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If your methods of coping with stress aren’t contributing to your greater emotional and physical health, it’s time to find healthier ones. There are many healthy ways to manage and cope with stress, but they all require change. You can either change the situation or change your reaction. When deciding which option to choose, it’s helpful to think of the four As: avoid, alter, adapt, or accept.

Since everyone has a unique response to stress, there is no “one size fits all” solution to managing it. No single method works for everyone or in every situation, so experiment with different techniques and strategies. Focus on what makes you feel calm and in control.
Dealing with Stressful Situations: The Four A’s

Change the situation:

    * Avoid the stressor.
    * Alter the stressor.   

   

Change your reaction:

    * Adapt to the stressor.
    * Accept the stressor.
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Stress is a common word nowadays. Its inability to respond suitably in a certain situation that involves physical or emotional pressure. Stress affects almost all people of all ages from adults, teens to children.

For you to enable to manage stress then you have to learn how to identify the source of stress in your life. It is not easy to find it for there are sources that are not obvious but you can start by making a stress journal.

Look closely at how you respond to situation. Evaluate your behavior, habits and excuses. When you get to analyze the source of your stress then you now can control your stress level.

You can now find better ways to cope with your stress when you know your source of stress. Below are some healthy ways to cope with stress.

    * Avoid unnecessary worries Avoid people or events that stress you out. If a relationship with someone is giving you too much stress then try to see less of that person or much better end it all up entirely. Learn to know your limits. Don't accept responsibilities or tasks that are more than you can take. Learn to say no and stick to it whether at work or at home. Taking in more than you can handle will put pressure on you.
    * Change the Situation If you can't stay away with stressful situation then try to change it. Think on how you can change the situation so that it won't pose any threat in the future. Face the problem head on. Be expressive, if you need to talk to the person concern then do it in a nice way. Talking the problem out helps solve the problem. Manage your time wisely. Poor management result to a lot of stress on your part. When you are in control with your time then all will be in order.
    * Adapt to the stressor If you can't change the situation then go with the flow. Changing the way you face problems will regain you some control. Looking at a problem not as a threat but an opportunity, Look at it positively and the result is positive too. That way you get control of yourself and your situation.
    * Accept that there are things that you can't change There are stressful situations that are unavoidable like death of a loved one, illness or even this economic recession that is happening globally. These things you have no control with so instead of wallowing over on this, it is better if you focus your energy on things like how you choose to react on situations that you have control with. Learn to accept that there are things that are beyond your control. When facing trials, you treat it positively. Look at them as opportunities for personal growth instead of rumbling about it.
    * Set aside time for fun. Don't get to busy that you forget to have time for yourself and your family. Always include rest and relaxation in your daily schedule. Do things that you enjoy most and most of all keep your sense of humor. Laughter is always the best medicine.
    * Take on a healthy lifestyle Avoid everything that isn't good to your health like alcohol, cigarettes and drugs. Adopt a healthy lifestyle by eating a balance healthy diet, exercise regularly and a regular eight hour sleep.
    * Renew yourself spiritually A healthy diet feeds your physical body while a heavenly food feeds your soul. A peace from the inside is the most effective shield of all kinds of diseases and that includes stress.

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Stress management strategy
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1: Avoid unnecessary stress

Not all stress can be avoided, and it’s not healthy to avoid a situation that needs to be addressed. You may be surprised, however, by the number of stressors in your life that you can eliminate.

    * Learn how to say “no” – Know your limits and stick to them. Whether in your personal or professional life, refuse to accept added responsibilities when you’re close to reaching them. Taking on more than you can handle is a surefire recipe for stress.
    * Avoid people who stress you out – If someone consistently causes stress in your life and you can’t turn the relationship around, limit the amount of time you spend with that person or end the relationship entirely.
    * Take control of your environment – If the evening news makes you anxious, turn the TV off. If traffic’s got you tense, take a longer but less-traveled route. If going to the market is an unpleasant chore, do your grocery shopping online.
    * Avoid hot-button topics – If you get upset over religion or politics, cross them off your conversation list. If you repeatedly argue about the same subject with the same people, stop bringing it up or excuse yourself when it’s the topic of discussion.
    * Pare down your to-do list – Analyze your schedule, responsibilities, and daily tasks. If you’ve got too much on your plate, distinguish between the “shoulds” and the “musts.” Drop tasks that aren’t truly necessary to the bottom of the list or eliminate them entirely.

2: Alter the situation

If you can’t avoid a stressful situation, try to alter it. Figure out what you can do to change things so the problem doesn’t present itself in the future. Often, this involves changing the way you communicate and operate in your daily life.

    * Express your feelings instead of bottling them up. If something or someone is bothering you, communicate your concerns in an open and respectful way. If you don’t voice your feelings, resentment will build and the situation will likely remain the same.
    * Be willing to compromise. When you ask someone to change their behavior, be willing to do the same. If you both are willing to bend at least a little, you’ll have a good chance of finding a happy middle ground.
    * Be more assertive. Don’t take a backseat in your own life. Deal with problems head on, doing your best to anticipate and prevent them. If you’ve got an exam to study for and your chatty roommate just got home, say up front that you only have five minutes to talk.
    * Manage your time better. Poor time management can cause a lot of stress. When you’re stretched too thin and running behind, it’s hard to stay calm and focused. But if you plan ahead and make sure you don’t overextend yourself, you can alter the amount of stress you’re under.

3: Adapt to the stressor

If you can’t change the stressor, change yourself. You can adapt to stressful situations and regain your sense of control by changing your expectations and attitude.

    * Reframe problems. Try to view stressful situations from a more positive perspective. Rather than fuming about a traffic jam, look at it as an opportunity to pause and regroup, listen to your favorite radio station, or enjoy some alone time.
    * Look at the big picture. Take perspective of the stressful situation. Ask yourself how important it will be in the long run. Will it matter in a month? A year? Is it really worth getting upset over? If the answer is no, focus your time and energy elsewhere.
    * Adjust your standards. Perfectionism is a major source of avoidable stress. Stop setting yourself up for failure by demanding perfection. Set reasonable standards for yourself and others, and learn to be okay with “good enough.”
    * Focus on the positive. When stress is getting you down, take a moment to reflect on all the things you appreciate in your life, including your own positive qualities and gifts. This simple strategy can help you keep things in perspective.

4: Accept the things you can’t change

Some sources of stress are unavoidable. You can’t prevent or change stressors such as the death of a loved one, a serious illness, or a national recession. In such cases, the best way to cope with stress is to accept things as they are. Acceptance may be difficult, but in the long run, it’s easier than railing against a situation you can’t change.

    * Don’t try to control the uncontrollable. Many things in life are beyond our control— particularly the behavior of other people. Rather than stressing out over them, focus on the things you can control such as the way you choose to react to problems.
    * Look for the upside. As the saying goes, “What doesn’t kill us makes us stronger.” When facing major challenges, try to look at them as opportunities for personal growth. If your own poor choices contributed to a stressful situation, reflect on them and learn from your mistakes.
    * Share your feelings. Talk to a trusted friend or make an appointment with a therapist. Expressing what you’re going through can be very cathartic, even if there’s nothing you can do to alter the stressful situation.
    * Learn to forgive. Accept the fact that we live in an imperfect world and that people make mistakes. Let go of anger and resentments. Free yourself from negative energy by forgiving and moving on.

5: Make time for fun and relaxation

Beyond a take-charge approach and a positive attitude, you can reduce stress in your life by nurturing yourself. If you regularly make time for fun and relaxation, you’ll be in a better place to handle life’s stressors when they inevitably come.
Healthy ways to relax and recharge

    * Go for a walk.
    * Spend time in nature.
    * Call a good friend.
    * Sweat out tension with a good workout.
    * Write in your journal.
    * Take a long bath.
    * Light scented candles

   

    * Savor a warm cup of coffee or tea.
    * Play with a pet.
    * Work in your garden.
    * Get a massage.
    * Curl up with a good book.
    * Listen to music.
    * Watch a comedy

Don’t get so caught up in the hustle and bustle of life that you forget to take care of your own needs. Nurturing yourself is a necessity, not a luxury.

    * Set aside relaxation time. Include rest and relaxation in your daily schedule. Don’t allow other obligations to encroach. This is your time to take a break from all responsibilities and recharge your batteries.
    * Connect with others. Spend time with positive people who enhance your life. A strong support system will buffer you from the negative effects of stress.
    * Do something you enjoy every day. Make time for leisure activities that bring you joy, whether it be stargazing, playing the piano, or working on your bike.
    * Keep your sense of humor. This includes the ability to laugh at yourself. The act of laughing helps your body fight stress in a number of ways.

6: Adopt a healthy lifestyle

You can increase your resistance to stress by strengthening your physical health.

    * Exercise regularly. Physical activity plays a key role in reducing and preventing the effects of stress. Make time for at least 30 minutes of exercise, three times per week. Nothing beats aerobic exercise for releasing pent-up stress and tension.
    * Eat a healthy diet. Well-nourished bodies are better prepared to cope with stress, so be mindful of what you eat. Start your day right with breakfast, and keep your energy up and your mind clear with balanced, nutritious meals throughout the day.
    * Reduce caffeine and sugar. The temporary "highs" caffeine and sugar provide often end in with a crash in mood and energy. By reducing the amount of coffee, soft drinks, chocolate, and sugar snacks in your diet, you’ll feel more relaxed and you’ll sleep better.
    * Avoid alcohol, cigarettes, and drugs. Self-medicating with alcohol or drugs may provide an easy escape from stress, but the relief is only temporary. Don’t avoid or mask the issue at hand; deal with problems head on and with a clear mind.
    * Get enough sleep. Adequate sleep fuels your mind, as well as your body. Feeling tired will increase your stress because it may cause you to think irrationally.

MEDITATION

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WHAT IS MEDITATION?
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An ordinary person may consider meditation as a worship or prayer. But it is not so. Meditation means

awareness. Whatever you do with awareness is meditation. "Watching your breath" is meditation; listening

to the birds is meditation. As long as these activities are free from any other distraction to the mind, it is

effective meditation.

Meditation is not a technique but a way of life. Meditation means 'a cessation of the thought process' . It

describes a state of consciousness, when the mind is free of scattered thoughts and various patterns .

The observer (one who is doing meditation) realizes that all the activity of the mind is reduced to one.

A Tibetan Lama was being monitored on a brain scan machine by a scientist wishing to test physiological

functions during deep meditation. The scientist said - "Very good Sir. The machine shows that you are

able to go very deep in brain relaxation, and that validates your meditation". "No", said the Lama, "This

(pointing to his brain) validates the machine!".

These days it is commonly understood to mean some form of spiritual practice where one sits down with

eyes closed and empties the mind to attain inner peace, relaxation or even an experience of God. Some

people use the term as "my gardening is my meditation" or for jogging or art or music, hence creating

confusion or misunderstanding.

The word meditation, is derived from two Latin words : meditari(to think, to dwell upon, to exercise the

mind) and mederi (to heal). Its Sanskrit derivation 'medha' means wisdom.

Many years ago meditation was considered something just not meant for modern people, but now it has

become very popular with all types of people. Published scientific and medical evidence has proved its

benefits, but it still needs to be much understood.

Traditionally, the classical yoga texts, describe that to attain true states of meditation one must go

through several stages. After the necessary preparation of personal and social code, physical position,

breath control, and relaxation come the more advanced stages of concentration, contemplation, and then

ultimately absorption. But that does not mean that one must perfect any one stage before moving onto

the next. The Integral yoga approach is simultaneous application of a little of all stages together.

Commonly today, people can mean any one of these stages when they refer to the term meditation.

Some schools only teach concentration techniques, some relaxation, and others teach free form

contemplative activities like just sitting and awaiting absorption. Some call it meditation without giving

credence to yoga for fear of being branded 'eastern'. But yoga is not something eastern or western as it

is universal in its approach and application.

With regular practice of a balanced series of techniques, the energy of the body and mind can be liberated

and the quality of consciousness can be expanded. This is not a subjective claim but is now being

investigated by the scientists and being shown by an empirical fact.

HOW TO MEDITATE?
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1.Make time to meditate. Set aside enough time in your daily routine for meditating. The effects of

meditation are most noticeable when you do it regularly and consistently rather than sporadically.
# Some people will find a five minute meditation worthwhile, for others, the benefits of longer meditation

are well worth the time.
# You can meditate at any time of day; some people like to start their day off with meditation, others like

to end the day by clearing their mind, and some prefer to find refuge in meditation in the middle of a busy

day. Generally, however, the easiest time to meditate is in the morning, before the day's events tire your

body out and give your mind more to think about.
# Don't meditate immediately following a meal, or when you are likely to be hungry. The body's digestive

system can be very distracting.

2.Find or create a quiet, relaxing environment. It's especially important, when you're starting out, to avoid

any obstacles to attention. Turn off any TV sets, phone(s) or other noisy appliances. If you play music,

make sure it's calm, repetitive and gentle, so as not to break your concentration. Meditating outside can

be conducive, as long as you don't sit near a busy roadway or another source of loud noise.

3.Sit with your pelvis tilted slightly forward. Tilt your pelvis forward by sitting on the forward edge of a

thick cushion, or on a chair that has its back legs lifted off the ground 8 to 10 cm (3 or 4 inches).
Starting from your bottom, stack up the vertebrae in your spine, so that they are balanced one on top of

another and support the whole weight of your torso, neck, and head. Done correctly, it feels as if no

effort is required to hold your torso up. (A small amount of effort is in fact required, but with the right

posture, it is so small and evenly distributed you don't notice it.)
There are some things you can check to help you find the right position:

    * There are two bony bits in your butt, that exist to help you sit. (Seriously.) Centre your weight over

them.
    * Relax your arms and legs. They don't need to be in any special position, just as long as they are

relaxed and don't interfere with balancing your torso. You can put your hands on your thighs, but it might

be easier at first to let your arms hang at your sides - the hanging weight helps reveal where things are

out of alignment.
    * Try to balance your whole torso such that you don't need to work to hold it up. When compared to

how people usually sit:
          o your low back will be further forward,
          o your shoulders will be further back,
          o your diaphragm and ribs will be tilted backwards and lifted
          o your chin will drop down to your neck, so much so that your tongue will be pressed against your

teeth and your jaw will move forwards
          o your scapulae (the triangular bones behind your shoulders) will loosen away from your ribs a bit
          o it will be easier to breathe as your lungs will have more space. In fact, you may notice how most

of the muscles in your torso work to help you breathe, from the muscles in the base of your pelvis to the

ones in your neck, centred on the main breathing muscle, the diaphragm. They work just a little, assisting

the diaphragm. If you notice this, it's a good sign you have established a good posture.
    * If your posture is good, you will almost certainly feel a stretch on the back of your neck, and possibly

in your shoulders. Just relax. If the stretch is so pronounced that it is painful, work on stretching and

relaxing that area when you aren't meditating.
    * The right posture is easy and comfortable. You almost feel like you are floating.

4.Relax everything, and keep searching for things that aren't relaxed. When you find them, (and you will),

relax them. You may find that you can't relax them unless you adjust your posture so that you are better

aligned, and that place doesn't need to work anymore. This commonly happens with muscles near your

spine. You may also notice that you are twisted a little and need to straighten out. Little muscles in your

face often keep getting tense, too.

5.Focus your attention. The meditation posture naturally moves your mind towards a relaxed, alert state.

The goal is to allow the "chattering" in your mind to gradually fade away. Find an "anchor" to settle your

mind.

    * Let your attention rest on the flow of your breath. Listen to it, follow it, but make no judgments on it

(such as "It sounds a little raspy...maybe I'm getting a cold?").
    * To overcome verbal chatter, recite a mantra (repetition of a sacred word). A single word like "aum"

uttered at a steady rhythm is best. You can recite it verbally or just with the voice in your mind. Beginners

may find it easier to count their breaths. Try counting your breath from 1 to 10, then simply start again at

1.
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      To circumvent images that keep intruding on your thoughts, visualize a place that calms you. It can be

real or imaginary. Imagine you are at the top of a staircase leading to a peaceful place. Count your way

down the steps until you are peaceful and relaxed.
    * For some people, focusing attention on a point or object does exactly the opposite of what

meditation is all about. It takes you back to the life of 'focus', 'concentration', 'strain'. In this case, as an

alternative to the above techniques, some meditators recommend un-focusing your attention. Instead of

focusing attention on a point or an object, this type of meditation is achieved by attaining a state of zero.

Take your attention above all thoughts till a point you lose all attention and all thoughts.

6.Silence your mind.  Once you've trained your mind to focus on just one thing at a time, the next step is

focus on nothing at all, essentially "clearing" your mind. This requires tremendous discipline but is the

pinnacle of meditation. After focusing on a single point as described in the previous step, you can either

cast it away, or observe it impartially and let it come and then go, without labeling it as "good" or "bad".

Take the same approach to any thoughts which return to your mind until silence perseveres

MEDITATION TECHNIQUES
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There are a number of meditation techniques for effective meditation.

Different cultures have different mediation techniques, but one thing is certain - meditation is universal.

The different techniques are suited to different personality types. While some techniques are

concentrative, involving focusing, other techniques are expansive such as 'Vipassana' meditation which

allows for the free flow of thoughts and their observation.

Presented below are some of the common meditation methods. Only a brief insight is provided and

meditation should be learnt under the guidance of a Guru.
Mantra Meditation

MANTRA MEDITATION
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A Mantra is a grouping of sound vibrations which have an effect on the mental and psychic

consciousness. Although traditionally given by a Guru, in the absence of a Guru, the practitioner may

choose his mantra. An important criterion for mantra selection is that it must appeal to the mind fully

when spoken verbally.

Mantra chanting creates powerful vibrations which are said to be directed to the right "chakras" to attract

divine forces. This process is said to mysteriously heal the spiritual, physical & psychological body. It is

important that when the mantra is chanted, the words and their rhythm must be enjoyed and one must

surrender oneself to this experience.

Mantras do not have any specific meaning. Their power lies not in the meaning of the word but through

the vibratory effects of the sound that they produced when spoken verbally or mentally.

In fact, a Mantra should not be confused with religion. Just because a mantra refers to a Hindu God, it

does not mean that it cannot be said by a Christian. Also, a Mantra should not be translated as this has

the effect of altering the sound vibrations wherein lies the strength of the Mantra.

Repetition of a Mantra forms the basis of Mantra Meditation. Mantras for spiritual evolution should be

practiced for a fixed amount of time each day. Repeating a mantra too much may not be right for sensitive

or psychic people as it may affect them adversely. Generally, if you repeat a mantra for about 10 minutes

every day, then, within a few days you will know whether the vibrations feel right for you.
Transcendental Meditation (TM) introduced by Maharshi Mahesh Yogi is also a form of Mantra Meditation

where the participants are provided their personal Mantra.

Mantra Meditation is the easiest and safest form of meditation and can be practiced by anyone at anytime

and under any conditions. The most common way of practicing Mantra Meditation is Japa. Japa (literally

means 'rotate') is performed by repeating a mantra in sync with the rotation of a Japa Mala. A Japa Mala is a

rosary of 108 beads where each bead is turned after the mental or audible recitation of the mantra.

Using a Japa Mala for Mantra Meditation is very effective as it provides an anchor to bring the mind back as

it experiences wavering thoughts. The Mantra combined with the Japa Mala provide tangible anchors to

which the thoughts are directed back as they spin out of control. That is why, Japa Meditation is one of

the most recommended forms of meditation for the beginner.

Yogic Gaze....(Trataka)
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In this a regular candle is used, however any other object of choice can be used. The candle is set up at

an arm's distance, level with eyes, and steady gazing is first done with the eyes open. After some time,

the eyes are closed, and the after image of the flame is 'gazed at' with eyes closed at the eye brow

center. Try not to move through out the practice. Relax your breath , let it lengthen, deepen.

This open gazing of the flame and then with the eyes closed is alternated a couple of times before

concluding the practice.

If using a candle for Trataka, the gaze should be fixed at the wick tip and not on the flame
Caution:

If practicing Trataka on a Candle flame, do not continue the practice for more than a month or two at a

stretch as it may lead to damage of the retina.

Benefits:
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It improves the optic function, both external and internal, such as poor eyesight and visualization abilities.
It helps develop concentration and mental resolve.
Develop the ability to maintain one-pointedness in amongst the noise and distractions of daily life.
Develops the psychic eye, that is the ability to "see" or understand what is inside and beyond the

obvious. It develops the power of Intuition.

CHAKRA MEDITATION
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Chakra Anusandhana means "discovery or search of the chakras". It is a simple way for beginners to

explore the chakras self-tutored. It helps in awakening them gently, and in a balanced integrated way.

How to:
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It can be done sitting, or lying.
Close your eyes, adjust your body, clothing.
Let the breath relax, slow and deepen, but do not control it.
After a few minutes of settling in, commence Ujjayi pranayam, and carry on for some time
Now bring awareness to the spinal passage, such that awareness of breath is from bottom to top, Spend

a few minutes establishing this inner breath pattern up and down. Ascending with inhalation, descending

with exhalation.
Begin to locate chakras within that channel. Need not pin point the exact location, just focus on general

area. Try to feel the location of each station and mentally repeat its name as you pass by it. On your way

up mentally repeat from Mooldhara to Ajna, and way down reverse the order.
Just before finishing let go of breath sound, then names. And chant mantra' 'Om' 3 times.

Precaution:
Awakening of Chakra can have its side effects. Excessive mental energy can be a problem with those who

do not have abundant physical activity.
Never meditate on one Chakra without qualified guidance. It can lead to an imbalance and cause

personality problems.

OTHER MEDITATION TECHNIQUES
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Vipassana Meditation
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Vipassana means "insight" -to see things as they really are, through a process of self-observation. It means

insight into your own nature which enables one to recognize himself the cause of suffering and eliminate

it.
   
Method:
   

It is usually done in a course of 10 days, when the participants refrain from reading, writing, and even

talking (except discussing difficulties faced during meditation with the teacher). Set aside 15 minutes. Find

a quiet place. Sit down cross-legged on the floor or a chair with a straight back. Become aware of your

breath. Take a mental note of whatever feeling you are experiencing. Open your eyes slowly after 10 or

15 minutes and get up gradually. Do not worry if you do not get any great insights in your first session.

Try to be aware of your senses and emotions and their impact on you.
   
Benefits:
    It is free of rites. Allows one to study sensation in the body like cold, pain, itching etc. One

develops wisdom.


Raja Yoga Meditation:
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Raja yoga meditation fills the yogi with super-sensuous joy or bliss which is the highest and the most

ennobling experience. The bliss elevates the mind and raises the yogi above carnal pleasures, and moulds

his bad habits.

A Raja yogi establishes a relationship with God . He withdraws from all the superfluous and avoidable

worldly activities. He spends minimum time and resources on his personal comforts and devotes

maximum energy for noble cause i.e. spiritual awakening of his felloe-beings.

Zazen
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It refers to zen meditation as was done by Buddha.
   
Method:
   

In this you sit in lotus position with back straight to allow free movement of the diaphragm. The chin is

tucked in and the weight of the body equally distributed on both the legs.
   
Benefits:
   

It is a way to discipline life, and makes one realize how much valuable time is wasted each day.


Nada Yoga
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Plug the ears with the thumbs as in Yoni mudra and concentrate on the internal body sounds. At first the

sounds will be faint and will progressively become louder. By listening to this sound mind becomes

internally focused. Very beneficial meditative object.
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It was not till the 20th century that a need for the creation of secular forms of popular meditative

techniques began to be felt. But for the most part these  New Age meditative systems were little more

than rehashed versions of older techniques, which had been extracted from their religious contexts.

Transcendental  Meditation (TM), as propagated by Maharishi Mahesh Yogi, is one such version, which

grew out of the Hindu practice of `naam japa` or `yoga japa` during the 1960`s.

Existent techniques of meditation can be categorized under two fairly broad sections
—Zen-based forms, which are more "insight"-oriented and Hinduism-based forms, which are largely

"concentration"-oriented. Most New Age techniques fall into either of these categories.

CONCENTRATIVE MEDITATION
Concentrative meditation focuses the attention on the breath, an image, or a sound (mantra), in order to

still the mind and allow a greater awareness and clarity to emerge.

The simplest form of concentrative meditation is to sit quietly and focus the attention on the breath. Yoga

and meditation practitioners believe that there is a direct correlation between one`s breath and one`s

state of the mind. For example, when a person is anxious, frightened, agitated, or distracted, the breath

tends to get shallow, rapid, and uneven. On the other hand, when the mind is calm, focused, and

composed, the breath is slow, deep, and regular. Focusing the mind on the continuous rhythm of

inhalation and exhalation provides a natural object of meditation. As you focus your awareness on the

breath, your mind becomes absorbed in the rhythm of inhalation and exhalation. As a result, your

breathing will become slower and deeper, and the mind becomes more tranquil and aware.

Transcendental Meditation or yoga nidra (popularized by the Bihar School of Yoga), which owe its origin

to ancient Hindu meditative techniques, aim towards a totally detached frame of mind. These forms

encourage the practitioner to retreat within the inner-self, into the "real" world, away from the "illusions"

(maya) of outside influences. Meditative practices like Mantra yoga, for example, induces the mind to

concentrate on a sacred sound by ritualistic chanting, until it attains the trance-like state of samadhi (a

state of mind, where it is only responsive to subjective impressions).

ZEN BASED MEDITATION
Mindfulness meditation involves opening the attention to become aware of the continuously passing

parade of sensations and feelings, images, thoughts, sounds, smells, and so forth without becoming

involved in thinking about them. The meditator sits quietly and simply witnesses whatever goes through

the mind, not reacting or becoming involved with thoughts, memories, worries, or images. This helps to

gain a more calm, clear, and non-reactive state of mind. Zen-based forms like Thich Nhat Hanh`s (the

France-based Vietnamese Zen master) mindfulness meditation or vipassana, which was promoted by S.N.

Goenka, concentrate more on the present, the here and now. This is accomplished by non-judgmentally

observing the breath and the sensations in the body very keenly. The objective is to attain perfect

concentration without blocking out outside distractions. To reach an ideal state of equanimity and

objectivity. But whether one adopts the method of the yogi, oblivious to the external world, or that of

the Zen meditator, keenly attuned to his environment—the idea is to tap those vast resources of energy

and enlightenment inherent in all of us. To effortlessly find within, what we had been unsuccessfully trying

to discover without. That, in essence, is both the art and the science of meditation.
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BENEFITS OF MEDITATIONS
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Meditation : an enrichment to your soul
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While a meditative state is the natural outcome of yoga and the spiritual benefit of meditation is supreme

bliss or enlightenment, these words are unlikely to be understood by many.

However, progress towards meditation and meditative techniques have several benefits at the gross body

or material level:
Improvement of body luster and general health-
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When your mind focuses on a particular part of the body, the blood flow to that part increases and cells

receive more oxygen and other nutrients in abundance. Today, many of the film stars and fashion models

include meditation in their daily regimen.
Improvement in concentration -
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 Many of the athletes and sports professionals regularly employ meditation methods. Studies have found

a direct correlation between concentration exercises (meditation) and the performance level of sports

professionals. Meditation strengthens the mind, it comes under control and is able to provide effective

guidance to the physical body to effectively execute all its projects. Psychological Exercises are a

powerful way of improving concentration and improving mental strength.

Health benefits of Meditation:
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Though meditation is usually recognized as a largely spiritual practice, it also has many health benefits.

The yoga and meditation techniques are being implemented in management of life threatening diseases; in

transformation of molecular and genetic structure; in reversal of mental illnesses, in accelerated learning

programs, in perceptions and communications beyond the physical, in solving problems and atomic and

nuclear physics; in gaining better ecological understanding; in management of lifestyle and future world

problems. Some benefits of meditation are:
It lowers oxygen consumption.
It decreases respiratory rate.
It increases blood flow and slows the heart rate.
Increases exercise tolerance in heart patients.
Leads to a deeper level of relaxation.
Good for people with high blood pressure as it brings the B.P. to normal.
Reduces anxiety attacks by lowering the levels of blood lactate.
Decreases muscle tension (any pain due to tension) and headaches.
Builds self-confidence.
It increases serotonin production which influences mood and behaviour. Low levels of serotonin are

associated with depression, obesity, insomnia and headaches.
Helps in chronic diseases like allergies , arthritis etc
Reduces Pre- menstrual Syndrome.
Helps in post-operative healing.
Enhances the immune system. Research has revealed that meditation increases activity of 'natural-killer

cells', which kill bacteria and cancer cells.
Also reduces activity of viruses and emotional distress.

Benefits of meditation on Women's health and Pregnancy:
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Identity of your own - besides daughter, wife, mother etc.-
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Women begin life as someone's daughter, and then someone's lover, wife, someone's mother. Yes, but

who am I- who am I really? Not only does a woman need an understanding of her body but also needs to

connect with the essence of her true self. A true self, which is an identity beyond everyday change-

beyond gender, beyond fluctuations of hormones, beyond family expectations and other superimposed

personality patterns. Discovering this true self is not as easy. Just when you know who you are , it all

changes again.

The process of self discovery involves, stripping off false layers of identity, going back through all the

conditionings , realizing- "I am not that, and not that, and not that", an emptiness out of which arises the

realization - "Ah ha! I am that".

The place for this self discovery is not the psychiatrist's couch, the matrimonial bed, the mother's group,

or even a yoga retreat, but within your own private meditation times.
   
Resolve Phobias
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Meditation can help to resolve the deepest of neuroses, fears and conflict which play their part in causing

stress and ill health.
   

For mothers-to-be
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Meditation puts mothers in tune with their babies. Manta Japa is especially appropriate for pregnant

women. [ See box Mantra Japa for pregnant women ] After birth, daily meditation becomes a precious time

to refocus and make sense of the many new thoughts and feelings which can be running through your

mind, brought about by the events of childbirth and new motherhood.
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• Worries and struggles of the mind are smoothened.
• Fear is removed and a sense of joy permeates your daily life.
• Your thinking becomes exalted, and you achieve success in your actions.
• Your being is filled with a sense of peace and love. You attain a sense of fulfillment and perfection, and

acquire the ability to create this sense in others.
• You come to realize that your own true Self permeates all living beings, and thus come to love each of

them dearly.
• You attain the knowledge of your own immortal and blissful essence.
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THINGS TO DO
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Easy Does It
• Find a clean place.
• Sit in a position that is most comfortable for you.
• Close your eyes.
• Concentrate on the darkness behind your eyelids.
• Watch the flow of your thoughts. Do not try to stem the flow.
• Simply observe.
• To keep your attention focused, chant any mantra.
• Meditate like this for at least 10 minutes.
• Open your eyes slowly.
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HOW TO MEDITATE
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MAPPING THE MIND
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MIND AND BODY
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There`s more to meditation than just closing ones eyes and an understanding of this technique demands

an understanding of our mental realm. The subtle state of mind, which is the ultimate stage of meditation,

requires a tremendous amount of energy to reach. An absolute harmony between our gross physical

realm, sensual realm and our life energy is the prerequisite of a meditative state of mind.

Traditional perceptions of our mental make-up are uncommonly useful in understanding the workings of

the mind. According to ayurveda and yoga, both the mind and the body are made up of the `Five Great

Elements` (Panchabhutas) of earth (prithvi), water (jal), fire (agni or tej), air (vayu) and ether or space

(akash).

But in spite of such composition, they have absolutely opposite elemental structures. While the body is

made up of the heavier elements of earth and water (the ayurvedic kapha or phlegmatic humoral type), it

functions through the lighter elements of fire (pitta or heat humoral type) and air (vata or vital energy

humor). The pitta, fire or heat of the body controls all digestive processes and the vata, air or vital energy

lends its spark to the nervous system.

The mind, meanwhile, is composed of air and ether (vata humor)—the lighter elements, which lend mobility

and pervasiveness to the mind. And our mental functions proceed through the heavier elements of fire,

water and earth (pitta—heat and kapha—phlegm). The element of fire lends reason and perception to the

mind, while water and earth lends it emotion and physical identification. But our mental functions proceed

through the heavier elements of fire, water and earth. While fire lends reason and perception to the mind,

water and earth lends it emotion and physical identification respectively.

Unlike the phlegmatic body, in substance our minds resemble ether—formless and all pervading. And in

motion it resembles air—penetrating, constantly in flux, effervescent and unpredictable!

MIND AND SPIRIT
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The mind (mana) and the energy spirit (prana, chi or life force) have always had an affinity for each other,

being merely the two sides of the same coin. Whatever the mind engages upon is soon infused with life

energy, and conversely, whatever the soul hungers for instantly engages our attention. As a result,

certain aspects of each are present in the other.

Out of the two, the mind is the finer and more sophisticated version of the cruder life force or prana—it

has a storehouse of its own energy and vitality. Some aspects of it naturally spills over, flooding the spirit

with thought and intelligence (buddhi). But it is the vital force, which is inherently a conscious power,

finding its expression in the mind, which is inherently the active force.

Both prana and mana (mind) are vata (vital force) humoral types, composed of air and ether. But being

composed more of the air element rather than the ether, the prana is more active and energetic—like the

wind! On the other hand, since the degree of ether is more in the composition of the mind, its nature is

receptive and passive—like the wide open spaces.

PREPARING THE MIND
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Meditation, especially passive meditation, brings us face to face with our subconscious. Not unlike

opening up a Pandora`s box full of mischief, if we are not ready to encounter our inner selves, it could

end up being a disastrous experience instead of an enlightening one! And the most vulnerable seem to

be-people with overwhelming anxiety, who are emotionally or psychologically disturbed, those who have

problems accepting reality, people who suffer from acute paranoia and even those who develop

delusions of grandeur from the altered states of consciousness that meditation tends to produce.

To avoid such psychosis or simply getting lost in our thoughts and ending up confused and disturbed, it is

necessary to begin meditation sessions with formal practice. Different schools of thought prescribe

different methods of such preparation, but they all agree on the absolute necessity of concentration

exercises preceding meditation. These preparation techniques are as varied as praying, chanting mantras,

performing pranayama or even visualizing. Once the mind becomes trained for concentration, actual

formless or mindfulness meditation can proceed, such as sitting in silence, practicing self-inquiry or

performing devotional meditation.

While Hinduism-based schools of thought insist on a proper sattvic (pure or ascetic) lifestyle as a primary

condition to true meditation, Buddhist mindfulness meditation prescribes contemplation on the `Four

Protections` and the `Nine Attributes` of the Buddha.

A helpful tip to keep in mind would be that ultimately meditation is all about being at peace with oneself. It

cannot perform miracles out of thin air. It does not solve problems magically. It`s simply a technique,

which acquaints you with the person you really are. And having gained that timeless knowledge, it is you

who will take that first step towards self-transformation. Remember always that the technique of

meditation is nothing more than a tool in your hands!

HARNESSING THE MIND
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Ways of harnessing the ever-changing, ever-shifting mind are as varied as the different techniques of

meditation. But by and large, they all practice mental exercises, which aim at capturing the very nature of

our minds. While the Buddhist Satipatthana Sutra advices the meditator to be mindful of: the body,

feelings, the mind and mental objects—Patanjali`s Yoga Sutra talks about the three techniques of:

dharana (concentration), dhyana (meditation) and samadhi (absorption or enlightenment).

Dharana
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Dharana, the sixth limb of the Yoga philosopher Patanjali`s Ashtanga Yoga, literally means `immovable

concentration of the mind`. The essential idea is to hold the concentration or focus of attention in one

direction. This is not the forced concentration of, for example, solving a difficult mathematics problem;

rather dharana is a form of closer to the state of mind, which could be called receptive concentration.

In practicing dharana, conditions are created for the mind to focus its attention in one direction instead of

radiating out in a million different directions. Deep contemplation and reflection usually creates the right

conditions, and the focus on a single chosen point becomes more intense. Concentrative meditative

techniques encourage one particular activity of the mind, and the more intense it becomes the more the

other preoccupation of the mind cease to exist.

The objective in dharana is to steady the mind by focusing its attention upon some stable entity. Before

retracting his senses, on may practice focusing attention on a single inanimate object. After the mind

becomes prepared for meditation, it is better able to focus efficiently on one subject or point of

experience. Now if the yogi chooses to focus on the center (chakra) of inner energy flow, he/she can

directly experience the physical and mental blocks and imbalances that remain in his or her system. This

ability to concentrate depends on excellent psychological health and integration and is not an escape

from reality, but rather a movement towards the perception of the true nature of the Self.

Dhyana
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Dhyana, the seventh limb of Ashtanga Yoga, means worship, or profound and abstract religious

meditation. It is perfect contemplation. It involves concentration upon a point of focus with the intention

of knowing the truth about it.

During dhyana, combining clear insights into distinctions between objects and the subtle layers

surrounding intuition further unifies the consciousness. We learn to differentiate between the mind of the

perceiver, the means of perception, and the objects perceived—between words, their meanings and

ideas, and even between all the levels of natural evolution. We realize that these are all fused in an

undifferentiated continuum. One must apprehend both subject and object clearly in order to perceive

their similarities. Thus dhyana is apprehension of real identity among apparent differences.

During dharana, the mind becomes unidirectional, while during dhyana, it becomes ostensibly identified

and engaged with the object of focus or attention. That is why, dharana must precede dhyana, since the

mind needs focusing on a particular object before a connection can be made. If dharana is the contact,

then dhyana is the connection.

Obviously, to focus the attention to one point will not result in insight or realization. One must identify

and become "one with" the object of contemplation, in order to know for certain the truth about it. In

dharana the consciousness of the practitioner is fixed on one subject, but in dhyana it is in one flow.

Samadhi
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The final step in Ashtanga Yoga is the attainment of samadhi. When we succeed in becoming so absorbed

in something that our mind becomes completely one with it, we are in a state of samadhi. Samadhi means

"to bring together, to merge". In samadhi our personal identities completely disappear. At the moment of

samadhi none of that exists anymore. We become one with the Divine Entity.

During samadhi, we realize what it is to be an identity without differences, and how a liberated soul

enjoys a pure awareness of this pure identity. The conscious mind drops back into that unconscious

oblivion from which it first emerged. The final stage terminates at the instant the soul is freed. The

absolute and eternal freedom of an isolated soul is beyond all stages and beyond all time and place. Once

freed, it does not return to bondage.

The perfection of samadhi embraces and glorifies all aspects of the self by subjecting them to the light of

understanding. The person capable of samadhi retains his/her individuality and person, but is free of the

emotional attachment to it.

ASPECTS AND APPROACHES
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MEDITATION AS A THERAPY
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Meditation has not only been used as an important therapy for psychological and nervous disorders, from

simple insomnia to severe emotional disturbances, but lately physicians have also prescribed it for curing

various physical ailments as well. It is useful in chronic and debilitating diseases like allergies or arthritis, in

which stress or hypersensitivity of the nervous system are involved. Regular meditation practices have

also been known to help in dealing with pain and a number of painful diseases, whether chronic or acute.

The act of meditation comes in useful because it helps the mind to detach itself from all material and

physical attachments—and that is the ultimate cure for all diseases or at least the way to transcend them

when we cannot avoid them.

Research has found meditation, especially Transcendental Meditation, to be extremely successful in

treating physiological problems. Research on Transcendental Meditation has been conducted at more

than 200 universities, hospitals, and research institutions in 27 countries. As a result, more than 500

research and review papers have been written covering a wide variety of physiological, psychological, and

sociological effects.

Transcendental Meditation allows mental activity to settle down in a natural way while alertness is

maintained and enhanced. Following Transcendental Meditation, individuals have reported feeling

refreshed physically as well as mentally. The mind has become calmer and more alert, thinking clearer, and

energy levels have increased. Those with busy schedules have noted that Transcendental Meditation

brings increased efficiency in activity; time is used more effectively. When mental and physical well being

are enhanced, personal relationships also improve, a commonly reported and valued benefit of

Transcendental Meditation.

Physiological research has shown that Transcendental Meditation gives rise to a state of deep rest

characterized by marked reductions in metabolic activity, increased orderliness and integration of brain

functioning, increased cerebral blood flow and features directly opposite to the physiological and

biochemical effects of stress. Taken together, these studies clearly distinguish the physiology of

Transcendental Meditation from sleep or simple relaxation.

A review of research on behavioral therapy for hypertension concluded that Transcendental Meditation

provides an optimal non-clinical treatment and preventive program for high blood pressure because the

technique:

• produces rapid, clinically significant blood pressure reductions;
• is distinctly more effective than other meditation and relaxation procedures;
• is continued by a high proportion of subjects (in contrast to lower continuation rates for relaxation

techniques and the frequent problem of poor compliance with anti-hypertensive drugs);
• has documented acceptability and effectiveness in a wide range of populations;
• is effective in reducing high blood pressure both when used as sole treatment and when used in

concert with medication;
• reduces high blood pressure in `real life` environments outside the clinic;
• is free from harmful side-effects or adverse reactions;
• reduces other cardiovascular risk factors and improves health in a general way.

However, all forms of meditation are not good for everyone, any more than all foods or herbs are. For this

reason both yoga and ayurveda recommends a proper lifestyle and an integral approach to meditation

that considers both our different faculties as well as our individual nature.

MEDITATION AND PRAYER
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People in the West are more familiar with prayer than meditation. Prayer is a general term and many types

of it exist, but the term usually refers to an active form of meditation in which we project an

intention—calling on God to help us or our loved ones in some way. Both ayurveda and yoga use prayer

(prarthana) along with mantra and meditation. Generally mantra is energized prayer, a prayer or yogic wish

directed by special sound patterns or vibrations of the cosmic Word. Meditation is a silent or

contemplative form of prayer in which there may not be any movement of thought or intention.

Devotional meditation is an intensely personal matter and is usually conditioned by one`s religious

background. Other than worshipping personal gods and deities who appeal to a particular person`s

consciousness, another important form of devotional worship is-the worship of planetary deities and

cosmic powers behind the forces of time and karma.

AFFIRMATION, AND VISUALIZATION
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The use of affirmations goes along with prayer and meditation. Affirmations can be employed to

emphasize our relationship with the divine or our own inner healing powers. People suffering from

negative thoughts about themselves, are often trapped in self-doubt. Affirmations can be very

strengthening in such conditions.

Yet affirmations should lead to action and not substitute for it. To do anything in life requires a belief that

one can do it and a positive intention to make the effort. In such cases one cannot use the affirmation as

an excuse for inaction.

Visualization goes along with prayer and meditation. One may visualize healed and improved conditions

that one wishes to achieve. One can also direct healing energy to those who are sicker or to the parts of

ones own body that need improvement. Such visualizations usually employ certain colors and mantras to

be directed along with the breath. Visualizations can also be of deities or beautiful natural scenes to clear

the mental field.

MEDITATION IN TRANSFORMATION
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"As a man wishes in his heart, so is he." We create our karma and ourselves through our intentions at a

deep level. Motivation or will is the main mental action behind the creation of our beings, the deep-seated

conditionings behind the mind and heart.

While yoga cultivates the will for self-realization, ayurveda cultivates the will of healing. A statement of

intentions should precede whatever action one decides to undertake: "I intend to do the following action

(in the following manner for a specific period of time) in order to produce the following result."

The path to self-transformation is like a plan or a strategy. No action is done without the seeking of some

sort of result. This result depends upon the intention behind the action, not simply the superficiality of

what we do. Higher or spiritual actions seek a result that is not ego-bound, like the development of

consciousness and the alleviation of suffering for all beings. Lower actions reflect ego desires—to get

what we want; to accomplish, achieve or gain for ourselves in some way or another. Spiritual motivations

direct us within and help liberate the soul. Ego-based motivations direct us without and bind us further to

the external world.

Self transformational motivation or will implies not only developing our own will but also allying our will

with the forces that can help it achieve its aim. Therefore it involves a seeking of help, blessings or

guidance. Such motivations are generally projected as various affirmations and vows during meditational

practices.

VARIOUS TECHNIQUES OF MEDITATION
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There are many meditation techniques. Some of the techniques are quite simple and can be picked up

with a little practice. Others require training by an experienced instructor. It is important to note that

because of the effects of meditation on repressed memories and the resulting psychological impact, a first

time meditator may go through some discomfort initially; hence it is always a good idea to be under the

care of a qualified practitioner as one starts to meditate.

In Christian spiritual training, meditation means thinking with concentration about some topic. In the

Eastern sense, meditation may be viewed as the opposite of thinking about a topic. Here the objective is

to become detached from thoughts and images and opening up silent gaps between them. The result is a

quietening of our mind and is sometimes called relaxation response. In Christian mystical practice, this

practice is called `contemplation`.

But whatever the technique of meditation, the following aspects are generally common to all of them:

ATMOSPHERE
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The best environment for the practice of meditation is a quiet place with minimum distractions. It

sometimes helps to set up a meditating room with special pictures, icons, holy books or even burning

incense sticks and soothing music in order to infuse the atmosphere with spiritual energy. It is best to sit

in a well ventilated room, which receives natural light.

ATTITUDE
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The best attitude to follow while practicing meditation is that of a receptive observer. Try to observe

either the mind or the immediate physical environment, without thinking anything in particular. Watch the

mind slowly empty itself out.

POSTURE
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Assuming a certain posture has been central to many meditation techniques. Classic postures, integral to

Hatha Yoga, are given in the Yoga Sutras of Patanjali, which codify ancient yogic healing practices. Other

postures appear in the Kum Nye holistic healing system of Tibet, in Islamic prayer, and in Gurdjieff

movements. Posture is considered very important in Zen Buddhist practice as well.

A major characteristic of prescribed meditation postures in many traditions is that the spine is kept

straight. This is true in Hindu and Buddhist yogas, in the Christian attitude of kneeling prayer, in the

Egyptian sitting position, and in the Taoist standing meditation of "embracing the pillar." People with

misalignments may feel uncomfortable in the beginning when assuming these postures. The spine is put

back into a structurally sound line, and the weight of the body distributed around it in a balanced pattern

in which gravity, not muscular tension, is the primary influence. It is possible, although it has not been

conclusively proven that this postural realignment affects the state of mind.

In the East, the cross-legged postures, with head and back in vertical line, are considered ideal for

meditation. In the classic the Lotus posture, when the legs are crossed with the feet on the thighs, right

feeling of poised sitting for meditation is imparted. These postures are difficult and even painful at first for

those who are not familiar with them. For such inexperienced individuals, two other traditional Eastern

postures—half lotus posture and the Burmese posture—are usually much easier to follow. For those who

prefer to meditate while sitting on a chair, there is the Egyptian posture.

ELEMENTS OF CONCENTRATION
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In Hindu meditative techniques, the object the attention dwells on is often a mantra, usually a Sanskrit

word or syllable. Usually the meditator repeats an affirmation to increase positive spiritual energies.

Alternately prayers or are often said for calming the mind. Various short rituals are also prescribed before

meditation, such as making offerings of fragrant oils (for earth elements), holy water (element of water),

lamps (fire), incense (air) and flowers or garlands (ether). These rituals help in cleansing the psychic energy

and preparing the mind for meditation.

In Buddhism, the focus of attention is often the meditator`s own breathing, a luminous sphere or a

translucent Buddha Statue. Some traditional Buddhist meditations follow forty concentration devices or

meditation subjects for tranquilizing the mind as prescribed by the Buddha These are the ten recollections

(anussati), ten meditations on impurities (asubha) , ten complete objects (kasina), four immaterial

absorption (arupajhana), four divine abiding (brahmavihara), one perception (ahare patikulasanna) or

contemplation of the impurity of material food, and one defining contemplation (vavatthana) on the Four

Elements (earth, water, fire, and air).

Whether one performs mantra meditation or Buddhist breath meditations, they both fulfill all the elements

required for meditating for relaxation.

TIME
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It is always recommended that meditation be practiced daily, twice a day for best results. Beginners are

recommended to meditate for about half an hour daily. Later when one gets used to the practice, one

hour is ideal.

Hindu methods of meditation prescribes about a quarter of an hour for performing pranayama, the same

for mantras and the same for silent or devotional meditation. What is emphasized is the regularity of

practice at all costs.